Traveling abroad opens up a world of adventure, but it can also get lonely. The good news? Meeting new people on the road is easier than you might think — and some of the friendships you form could last a lifetime. Whether you’re on a solo trip or just eager to connect beyond tourist sights, here’s how to make meaningful connections while traveling.
1. Stay in Social Accommodation
- Hostels: Even if you’re older or value privacy, many hostels offer private rooms along with social common areas.
- Guesthouses or homestays: Staying with locals or in smaller properties often leads to more natural conversations.
- Co-living spaces: Great for longer stays, these mix work and social life, perfect for digital nomads.
2. Join Local Tours or Experiences
Look for walking tours, cooking classes, or day trips. These group settings give you a built-in icebreaker. You’re all there for the same reason, so it’s easy to strike up a chat.
3. Use Meetup & Event Apps
Apps like Meetup, Couchsurfing Events, and Facebook local events list gatherings ranging from language exchanges to hiking groups. Perfect for meeting locals and other travelers.
4. Hang Out in Local Cafés or Parks
Pick places with communal tables or popular local hangouts. A friendly smile or casual question (“Is this seat taken?” or “What’s your favorite thing on the menu?”) can open doors.
5. Take Language or Hobby Classes
From Spanish lessons in Mexico to surf schools in Bali, learning something together naturally bonds people.
6. Volunteer
Whether helping out at an animal rescue, teaching English, or joining a beach cleanup, volunteering is a fantastic way to meet people who care about the same causes you do.
7. Be Open and Approachable
- Put your phone down and look around.
- Wear a genuine smile — it makes you look open to conversation.
- If someone strikes up small talk, lean into it. You never know where it might lead.
8. Use Travel Forums and Social Media Groups
Platforms like Reddit’s r/travel, digital nomad Facebook groups, or destination-specific WhatsApp groups often have meetups or give you a chance to connect with people in advance.
Final Thoughts
Making friends abroad doesn’t always happen instantly, and that’s okay. Be patient, stay open, and focus on shared experiences — whether it’s discovering a local food stall together or swapping stories over a hostel beer. Often, the people you meet along the way become the highlight of your travels.
